I'll do my best to report on the reason for my absence and lack of blogging, especially since it directly relates to my struggles toward getting a job. I'll share the rest in later posts, but it started with a last minute, thrown together (by me) job interview that apparently went better than I hoped - I was offered the job (postdoc). The only problem is that I don't think I want the job. Nothing wrong with the institute (its a good place), the lab (very friendly), the benefits (YES! A postdoc with good benefits!) or the research (different from what I've done before, but very cool).
The problem, you see, is not them. It's me. Because I can't stomach another postdoc that isn't a step up. A BIG step up. 'Cause if I ain't movin' up, it ain't worth moving for.
Absolutely not. I'm a big fan of my way or not at all (i.e. if it is nearly impossible to get an academic job, and one does not in fact do so, going to incredible lengths for it is INSANE).
ReplyDeleteOf course, I'm a housewife. So...
Apparently a no-holds-barred approach was a good negotiating strategy. I now have a VERY interesting package to.consider....
Deletetotally get it particularly if you have to uproot family. I can't imagine how good a job would have to be right now to get us to move. umm but congrats on getting job offer. Obviously you rock hard
ReplyDeleteNot sure how hard I rock, but thank you.
DeleteIt amazes me how quickly things change. After looking at my new offer, things appear very different.
I was offered my current salary (high for a postdoc) plus benefits (I don't receive any right now). No move involved, but the morning commute may be a bit trickier (we're a one car household).
The only negative is that it's at an institution comprable to my own and not a step up....
More to think about and digest, I suppose.
If it doesn't require you to uproot your family, I say go for it. I realize that it isn't a step up for you, but at the same time (pending no other offers on the table) it provides you an opportunity to expand your knowledge base which could make you more attractive during the next application cycle.
ReplyDeleteJust my two cents. I'm sure you will do what is best for you and your family.
I totally agreed with you on Monday, but was approached with another potential offer on Tuesday (see my newest post). I think some cosmic force is conspiring to make me overthink every available option and second guess everything.
DeleteThis is interesting. I was offered an on-site job interview, after a phone interview but the place wants me to make the long trip during my last week of classes or during my finals. I can't be missing that time with my current job....I stressed over this, talking to husband, and I said "I feel like I'm just supposed to be happy to get an interview, and potentially an offer." He said that was the wrong approach. I think I need to adopt your up or out approach--just so I don't sell myself short.
ReplyDeleteYou totally need to state your needs. If they are interested, they will work with you (within reason). How hard would it be to reschedule for a different week? If they're not interested enough to adapt it's probably not the best fit for you.
DeleteObviously, you have to be reasonable in your expectations, but remember that you are a talented researcher with a unique set of skills. No one can duplicate what you bring to the table.
Be proud and voice your concerns or needs. No one else will do it for you. One last thing - if they support you BEFORE you work there, just imagine what they will do after you're there. :)